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A couple reaching out and touching fingertips trying to connect. They want to know how to rebuild trust in their marriage that was broken due to lying.

How to Rebuild Trust in Marriage after Lying

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Is it possible to rebuild trust? You may be asking that question. You feel terrible about the mistake of lying to your spouse, but you are not sure how to reverse it. Your stuck between defending yourself and protecting yourself from their anger. Healing takes time and hopelessness wanes in situations like these. The question you are asking is,  "Is it possible to make things better?" As a marriage and family therapist, my answer is, "Yes!"
How do I talk to my partner about lying

How do I talk to my partner about lying?

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What is it like to be lied to? And how to you deal with a spouse that lies? To confront a spouse who lies, you first need to have a plan of how to talk to your partner about their dishonesty. You may be struggling with the pain of the most recent lie or the first one ever. Yet, you can't just stand by and wait for the next time, or let this go by without trying to understand, right?
Why do people lie in relationships

Why Do People Lie in Relationships: 8 reasons for dishonesty

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Do you ever wonder why people lie in relationships? It seems a mystery at times. You would think that love, kindness and a fear of hurting your spouse or partner would deter dishonesty. Culturally, lying seems to be accepted, but when it happens in a relationship, it can be devastating. Broken trust, decreased affection and other possible effects on your marriage or relationship are results of deceptive behavior. Why would anyone do this?
How to Forgive my Spouse For Lying

How to Forgive My Spouse for Lying

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Throughout my years of counseling, I have had many wives and husbands plead to me to give them the answer to how to forgive their spouse. Many times the reason is because they feel betrayed or deeply hurt by dishonesty. As I am sitting here, it occurred to me that it would be helpful to provide this information to others I can't reach through counseling.
Reasons for God's Design in Marriage

9 REASONS FOR GOD’S DESIGN OF MARRIAGE: Marriage represents God’s design for order and priority in life

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God's design is perfect. Do you believe that? I do. I don't believe in a God who is imperfect, so his design for things, essentially how he designed things he created, is perfect. You heard in my last post, "God is a God of order." God designed things to be in order.
Reasons for God's Design in Marriage

9 REASONS FOR GOD’S DESIGN OF MARRIAGE: Marriage is God’s original design for procreation

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Procreation is when a man and a woman create child together. Duh! Why is that important? Because it can't be anything other than a man or a woman! Sounds simple, but our culture and society wants to make marriage more than just one man and one woman.
Reasons for God's Design in Marriage

9 Reasons for God’s Design of Marriage: Holiness, not happiness

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You may not believe it, but I have struggled with many things in life that most people would not see as loving, kind or upright. I have always wanted to be better than I am. When you struggle with thoughts of not being good enough, you wonder how you could ever have anyone accept you.
Reasons for God's Design in Marriage

9 Reasons for God’s Design of Marriage: Worshiping God through Relationship

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Do you watch the news all the time? Are you on your phone all day? Do you ignore your kids or spouse because something else is more important? If you were a fly on the wall in many couples' houses today you would probably see all 3 of these things going on. Would you want to be married if you saw just these things? NOT ME!!

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